Starting Over: Finding Love & Life Again After the Loss of a Spouse
EPISODE DESCRIPTION:
What happens when two people from completely different worlds meet later in life after losing their longtime partners? In today’s episode, I talk with Dr. Dianne Olvera, former diplomat, educator, and author of The Power of Connection, and Lee Sweeney, retired aerospace engineer and pioneer in space-based defense systems. They share how grief, resilience, and an unexpected meeting in their Colorado retirement community led to a powerful new chapter together—filled with practical lessons on communication, dignity, and the importance of human connection later in life. Hear their remarkable story, and discover how the second half of life can be even more meaningful than the first.
ABOUT THE GUESTS:
Dr. Dianne Olvera
Dianne Olvera, PhD, is an educational therapist, communication coach, and former U.S. diplomat. With over four decades of experience spanning diplomacy, teaching, and research, she has developed groundbreaking strategies that empower people to connect across differences. Author of Ask, Don’t Tell and the upcoming The Power of Connection, Dianne helps individuals and organizations harness language to build stronger relationships, reclaim dignity, and foster lasting personal growth.
Lee Sweeney
Lee Sweeney is a retired aerospace systems engineer whose pioneering work in infrared star mapping laid the foundation for modern space-based defense systems. After a decades-long career at the intersection of science and national security, Lee turned his attention to health, purposeful living, and connection in later life. Now active in his retirement community, he shares his perspective on resilience, reinvention, and building meaningful relationships after loss.
Contact: drdianneo4@gmail.com; lee9360@yahoo.com
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